“The ordinary arts we practice every day at home are of more importance to the soul than their simplicity might suggest.” Thomas Moore
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Planning for Guests
I also keep a basket that I like to think of as my portable guest room. It has travel sized toiletries including ibuprofen and tums. I try to pick these things up when I see them on sale so I can keep the basket well stocked. I provide a snack basket too w/ fresh fruit, granola bars and chocolates. This, placed on the dresser w/ a carafe of water and some cups, keeps guests from feeling awkward about asking for a small snack to tide them through a time change adjustment.
I know our guest situation is not ideal and frankly I'm excited about someday having a bedroom dedicated to being a wonderful place for guest to stay, but in the mean time I am sure that I still need to be extending hospitality and hope that the warmth of our welcome makes up for the gaming posters and stacks of art supplies in the corner of the room.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Prepping for the Holidays
1. Go over the calendar and mark important cannot be moved or ignored event dates.
2. Plan how many times you want to host people in your home. If you don't want to host any parties, have anyone over a meal or will be going to visit family for Thanksgiving and Christmas think about how you can make the holidays special for your family or the people you will be visiting.
3. Create a guest list and menu for each event. Think about how and when you want invitations to go out and write it on your calendar.
4. Think through what decorations you want to use and check on the condition of Thanksgiving tablecloths and decorations now so you won't be surprised if you pull out you favorites the day before the big feast to find damage and stains.
5. Do fall cleaning. Like spring cleaning, fall cleaning is a deeper type of cleaning and also a time to put away all of the summers stuff like beach towels, patio furniture, and decor. I pay my kids to help me do jobs like washing baseboards and walls, checking ceilings for cob webs and cleaning fans. We also vacuum behind and under couches and chairs, wipe out light fixtures and clean blinds.
6. Create a time line plan for each event you've decided on. This should include plans to prebake and make food for the event, any cleaning or errands needed, etc. You can do this in a family meeting and assign tasks to each member who will be participating. Do as much food prep before the day of the event as possible. Pick foods with this in mind. Some desserts and breads can be made as much as a month ahead. Pies can be made a day or two ahead and even tasks like cooking rice and cutting up vegetables can be done before the day of your event (store in a bag or container with a tight fitting lid). Sweet potatoes and squash can be roasted the day before too.
7. Don't forget to plan what you and your family will wear. I have done this and it's not fun to realize about thirty minutes before your guests come that you don't have a clean pair of jeans or that your daughter's party dress needs to be ironed.
8. Think about what you guests will see as the come up to your house or apartment. Sweep off the front porch and clean the front door. Decorating with pots of live plants is easy and will give you weeks of color to enjoy.
9. Someday when you have been away from home for a few hours take the time to stop at your front door. When you open the door use your senses to "experience" your home. What do you see, is it welcoming? What do you smell? What do you hear? Think about how you can create a welcome for your guests by making sure that clutter is banished and off putting smells are dealt with (wet dog, kitty litter box, stinky trash cans, running shoes stored near the front entrance, etc.) there are many ways to scent a home for very little money - just placing bowls of lemons and oranges around will help as well as recharging old potpourri with essential oils. Simmering a mixture of cinnamon, orange peels, cloves and water can scent a whole house quickly too. Just make sure you keep the heat on low and replace water as needed. What mood are you going for at the gathering you are hosting? Music will help set the tone.
10. When you have planned and prepped, cleaned and dressed remember that hospitality is not about how good you are at hosting, but rather how you can bless those who have come to your home. Don't freak out over mistakes or accidents. You set the emotional tone of the gathering. Laugh at yourself and give yourself grace to flub something up and give others grace to spill a drink or drop cranberry sauce on your rug. peroxide and Oxiclean can work wonders.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Fall is Somewhat in the Air
Homekeeping is an art. If you don't think of it as a creative and even artistic process it can become drudgery. OK, I know cleaning a bathroom or mopping a floor is not very creative. Just like kneading clay before making a pot or prepping a canvas before painting takes no creativity either, but if you look at the larger picture of creating a home that you, your family and friends enjoy, it's the prep work that makes the finished product possible. Imagine a beautifully decorated room w/ a dirty floor and smears from little hands across the walls or a table w/ great food served on dirty dishes. Yuck.
Hopefully I'll start blogging here a bit more regularly. In the meantime you might be interested in checking out my daughters' Sarah and Kristin's new blogs. Sarah has started a cooking blog potsnplans.blogspot.com and Kristin has two; a product review site kristinsreview.com and a site about her experiences as a mom and homemaker purposefulhomemaker.com.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Spring Cleaning - Part 1
I start in the kitchen and taking just 15 to 20 minutes a day some days I work through every drawer and then through every cabinet. When I do a drawer or cabinet shelf I pull everything out and wash down the interior. I also wash any drawer dividers or lazy-susans and set them aside to dry. When I have everything clean and I'm putting it all back I look through what was in the drawer or cabinet. Do I have too many of something, are they in good condition are they in the right space, do I actually use what ever it is? Those are the questions I ask myself. If I find I have too many of something or don't really use it it gets tossed into a give away box. Broken things head straight to trash.
The refrigerator also gets a through cleaning at this time w/ everything taken out, the interior washed down and the front bottom grill removed - to be cleaned but also so I can vacuum the coils underneath. Keeping the coils vacuumed helps the refrigerator run more efficiently saving you money on electricity. Another trick for an efficient refrigerator is to keep it filled w/ water jugs if it's not full of food. Cold is stored in the jugs keeping the temp even and reducing energy use.
Monday, May 10, 2010
May Already!
I love gardening. There is something about experiencing the cycles of the year and watching the miracle of rebirth that makes my heart sing w/ worship towards our incredibly creative God.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Bits and Pieces
Rebekah also passed on a recipe for energy bars that I really like. I can't seem to keep myself from tweaking things so I replaced 1/4 of the crispy brown rice cereal w/ the granola I make as well as adding 1/2 cup coconut and 1/2 cup sliced almonds. I've also added chocolate chips which got rave reviews from my boys. I've been wrapping the cooled and cut bars in aluminum foil and leaving them in a bowl for the kids to grab for on the go snacks. Here's the basic recipe;
Crispy Peanut Butter Rice Bars
2/3 cup smooth peanut butter
1 cup brown rice syrup
4 cups crispy brown rice
In small sauce pan over medium low heat stir brown rice syrup and peanut butter until smooth. Pour over crispy brown rice and stir gently. Pour into 9x13 well greased pan and allow to cool. Cut to desired size.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Mushrooms, Laundry Soap Update
Making my own laundry soap has also been an adventure mainly because I have a tendency to look at the recipe or formula for something and start wondering how I can "tweak" it. When I looked at the laundry detergent recipes I was most interested in the liquid ones since I have a front loader and do most of my laundry using cold water. When I've used powder in the past I have have had a problem getting the powder to dissolve and go from the detergent cup to the washer unless it is very concentrated like Charlie's Soap. What I ended up doing was taking the Duggar's liquid soap recipe since that had been recommended to me and tweaking it by making a half batch, making it more concentrated and also by using a vegetable based soap instead of the Fels Naptha they use since it is made w/ petroleum products. I've been using the detergent for over a week now and after a bit more consumer testing (handing it off to my daughter Rebekah to use in a top loader and w/ baby items in the laundry) I'll share the recipe.
I have one other new thing (or maybe I should say old thing rediscovered) I've been playing with this week. I just bought a pressure cooker. I grew up with my mom's pressure cooker being used to make wonderful soups and tender roasts so I'm excited about my experimentation. So far I've made an incredible chicken vegetable soup, an equally good bean soup and tonight I'm making black beans to serve w/ tacos. Crazy thing cooked them in about 1/2 hour from start to finish. I'm hunting for a good grass fed piece of chuck roast to see if I can duplicate the roasts I remember from my youth...
Friday, February 19, 2010
Laundry and Taxes
During this time period with all of the extra work I've been doing I have had little time to do much more than surface clean and do laundry basics. I'm still looking into the make your own laundry soap vs. well made plant based soaps. I bought all the ingredients for making my own laundry detergent this week except for the bar soap I need. I may just settle for a some from Trader Joe's but wanted to look around a bit first. I'm also considering adding some essential oils - just need to do a bit more research first.
My eldest daughter Kristin has decided to try blogging and her first blog entry happens to be about the challenges of a mom w/ lots of little ones being motivated to do the laundry. Her blog is located at http://purposefulhomemaker.blogspot.com/
One other sort of odd tidbit of note, I ordered a grow your own mushroom kit from http://everythingmushrooms.com and it arrived yesterday. We are attempting shitake mushrooms on a grow block in our kitchen. I'll post some pictures as they appear (that is a statement of faith!).
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Easy Ways to Freshen Up a Room for Very Little or No Money, Part 2
1. I know I have mentioned the smell of a room or home before, but I really believe it is an important element of creating a home. It can also be done for very little money and in a green way that does not put petroleum based artificial scents in the air. My favorite way to scent my home is w/ essential oils. You can buy small vials of essential oils at Whole Foods or any health food store. These oils can be mixed into old potpourri and placed in interesting containers or used in many other ways to release scent over time. http://www.repair-home.com/home_decor_scents.html is a site with some good ideas on creating a well scented home.
2. Rotate accessories according to season. Change out accessories as the seasons or holidays come up. Keep off season accessories in labeled storage containers in a closet storage room.
3. Change out artwork and pictures. Don't let you home get stuck in a time warp. Change out photos and make sure your art work is either classic or gets updated every once in awhile too. If your frames are out of date try spray painting them black to update them w/o buying new ones.
4. Use live plants w/ seasonal flowers to bring freshness to a room. Bulbs and branches can be forced by placing them in water and keeping them indoors for an inexpensive spot of color and sometimes scent.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Easy Ways to Freshen Up a Room for Very Little or No Money, Part 1
1. De clutter you space! Take everything off the walls and all small objects and books off of shelves. Remove all toys, magazines, pillows etc. Pile them in the middle of the room if you have to. Then decided what goes back into the space. Only put back in the space what you truely use, like and enjoy. If you have too many books (my constant problem) go through and see what you can part with and what might be able to be stored in labeled boxes in a closet (old textbooks you haven't looked at in five years, double copies of your favorite classics, paperbacks you read but now years later know you're not likely to reread). If toys are taking over you living space allow only what will fit neatly into a nice basket or two to be in the living space and store the rest in bedrooms (more on toys later!). Store these out of plain view so the room can become a grown up space in the evenings. Of course, if you have a new baby there will probably be a swing or jumper/play center somewhere in the room for the first 8 months or so, but try not to store too much baby paraphernalia in plain sight. A basket for diapers, wipes and toys tucked to the side of a couch looks much better than having things stacked on a coffee table. It's really not about how things look so much as the emotions you experience when entering an uncluttered, visually pleasing room versus a cluttered, unappealing one.
2. If painting is an option, it gives the most bang for you buck. A gallon of low VOC paint is about 30.00 and the average living/family room should take about two gallons if you are not dramatically changing colors. If you've never painted before there are online tutorials. Painting is not difficult but does need to be dome with care and precision.
3. With all pictures off your walls rethink how you have them hung. The rule of thumb is that the middle of the picture or print should be at the average persons eye height which can range from about 5 feet to 5 feet 5 inches (remember it's eye height not head height). Over a couch you can place prints or painting where the bottom of the frame is about a foot from the frame of the couch - unless the couch is very low ( sit on the couch and check head clearance). The top of the frame/s should still be about eye height or a bit above. Many people hang picture way too high on their walls so they look disconnected to the furniture. Arrange the pieces on the floor to get a sense of how a grouping will look or take the time to cut newspaper or brown wrapping paper into the size and shape of your pieces and play with their placement on the wall w/ tape to play with arrangements.
4. Play with furniture placement and also evaluate whether you have too much furniture stuffed in a space or too little for your needs.
5. Look around the rest of the house to bring in new elements. Swap pictures around, re purpose a small table or chest. Switch out lamps, etc.
6. Use new pillows and throws for a pop of new color at a reasonable price.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Laundry Day .2
If you've made your own detergent and have noted the price per load please comment w/ how much per load your detergent cost.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Real Texas Chili for a Cold Night
Thursday, January 7, 2010
To Paint Apple or Heath
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Some Lessons Learned
Friday, January 1, 2010
Happy New Year!
Sips English Cream Tea Scones
375 degrees for 15 to 20 minutes
(This recipe doubles easily)
2 cups unbleached flour
¼ cup sugar (I use raw)
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/8 teaspoon salt
1/3 cup unsalted butter, cut into chucks
1 large egg
1 teaspoon vanilla
½ cup cream or half ‘n half
If using food processor; place flour, baking powder, salt and sugar in bowl. Add cut up butter and process until well blended. Remove to bowl. In 2 cup measuring cup measure cream, add egg and vanilla and blend w/ whisk or fork. Pour over flour and mix gently. Knead in bowl just two or three times. Half dough for smaller scones or make one large round for large scones. One well floured board shape and flatten dough into a circle about 1/2 to ¾ inches thick. Cut circle into eighths. Brush tops w/ left over cream, egg mixture (or cream alone). Sprinkle tops w/ raw sugar if making sweet scones or just cream for savory. Repeat w/ other half of dough. Place scones on cookie sheet (parchment paper under is nice but not necessary. Bake at 375 for 15 to 20 minutes until golden brown.
Add Currants, chocolate chips, cranberries, nuts, or cheese to dough after mixing in liquids for flavored scones.